So if you\u2019re seeing these signs from a guy you\u2019re involved with…you\u2019re probably already being played. What you need to do is ABORT MISSION. Pack it up, sis. What you are not about to do is convince yourself that you can change him. You can\u2019t. Girls before you have tried to change him and future ladies will do the same thing. It is pointless. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
A player only changes when he wants to change. Don\u2019t wait around hoping that he will warm to the idea of a relationship or will suddenly start treating you how you deserve to be treated. As they say, don\u2019t hate the player, hate the game. Take him for who he is, block that mofo and remove yourself from that game you don\u2019t want to play. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s up to you to decide how you will let men treat you, girl! When you see these warning signs, pick up the red flags, and run! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
You deserve a prince, not a player, my dear. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Chase your glow!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kay xo<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
So I\u2019m starting to believe that some men are truly sociopaths. Players can look you in the eye and tell you that they\u2019ve never met anybody like you and then ghost you two days later. It\u2019s the inability to maturely communicate their intentions for me! Players can be charming as hell or even be seemingly nice guys. It’s important to know the warning signs of a player! Keep on reading to learn how to identify a player so you don\u2019t get played. He is always disappearing and coming back When you do talk to him he\u2019s the sweetest guy and you think that he\u2019s interested in you but then he leaves you on read for two days and does not get back to you. He knows that he can do this and when he comes back you\u2019re going to reply.\u00a0 Men will do the bare minimum if it\u2019s going to get them what they want. So, if all he has to do is text you a few times throughout the week to get laid at the end of the week then he\u2019s just gonna do the bare minimum.\u00a0 His words and actions don\u2019t align He\u2019s telling you that he can see a future with you and that he really likes you but he is not acting like he wants a relationship. When you ask to see him more often, he makes excuses or he always “busy.” He takes forever to return your text and calls and never actually initiate conversations that don\u2019t involve getting together to hook up. When you actually bring up getting more serious the subject always mysteriously changes and you’re left confused on where you stand. A player won’t tell you that he doesn’t want to commit to you because he wants to keep you around! Don’t play his games, girl! If his words and actions don’t match up, cut him off. He makes things sexual quickly If you just started texting a guy and he starts making sex jokes or hinting that he wants to fuck you right off the bat then you usually have yourself a player. A guy who\u2019s actually interested in a relationship will be showing more emphasis on getting to know you as a person and going out on actual dates. Take note of if he asks you to Netflix and chill or to meet up with him for coffee on your first date. If you\u2019re talking to a guy and he asks you to come over as your first date then bitch you need to block him. If you\u2019re looking for a relationship then you and him are on two different pages. He\u2019s flaky and unreliable The guy that always wants to see you but never actually makes any plans to see you. He often text you that you guys should hang out but never actually tries to make a plan to hang out. He says that you guys should go to a restaurant but you guys never end up going because you can never nail down a solid plan with him. You know you can count on a 12 am booty call text from him though. Commitment is a dirty word to him When a guy says \u201cI don\u2019t do labels\u201d or \u201cLet\u2019s just go with the flow\u201d understand that means I don\u2019t wanna commit to you. He knows that when he\u2019s not your actual boyfriend even he is free to do what he wants. Without the label of boyfriend and girlfriend, you guys have no true accountability to one another. He can still go out and hook up with other people guilt-free because he does not technically have a girlfriend. This really sucks because when he\u2019s doing things that make you angry, not telling you where he is on a Friday night or flaking out on plans, you feel like you can\u2019t really say anything because he\u2019s not your boyfriend. Players want to have multiple “girlfriends” without ever having to be a boyfriend. They want to have their cake and eat it too. Do not let a guy keep you in limbo for months! After 10 dates either you\u2019re in a relationship now or you need to move on, sis. Commitment is a player\u2019s kryptonite. He hates the idea of a committed relationship because he will have to stop his fuck boy behavior. Players manipulate women into thinking they want or are open to a serious relationship so they can get what they want from them which is usually sex. It\u2019s awful and dishonest but this is why we have to stay vigilant of the warning signs of a plater. There is no worse feeling than falling for a guy who will never commit to you. Brags about his sex life A player will tell you boastfully about how many women he\u2019s been with the places that he\u2019s had sex in how amazing he is in bed. He thinks about sex and the number of women he\u2019s been with as a kind of trophy that he can show off. I\u2019m not sure why men don\u2019t see how fucking tacky that is but players are a different breed. Are you a different breed a man I don\u2019t know what the fucks wrong with them. A lot of players will also tell you about the women that they could have been with and may express regret for not sleeping with them when they had a chance. They correlate their body count with their value as a man. That says a lot about what they think is important and who they are as a person! The funny thing about players is you end up sleeping with them and they are terrible in bed. Lmao! Your relationship is a secret Every time the idea of meeting any of his friends or family comes up he suddenly gets real quiet. He doesn\u2019t ask to meet your friends and you\u2019ll never get to meet his because he does not want to look attached to […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2169,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/breathehustleglow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2070"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/breathehustleglow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/breathehustleglow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/breathehustleglow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/breathehustleglow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2070"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/breathehustleglow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2070\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2171,"href":"https:\/\/breathehustleglow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2070\/revisions\/2171"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/breathehustleglow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2169"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/breathehustleglow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2070"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/breathehustleglow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2070"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/breathehustleglow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2070"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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