After my breakup, I literally had no idea who I was. I didn’t recognize the person I had become.
I failed to realize just how damaged I was and had absolutely no idea how to fix it.
Sound familiar?
I went around for a year keeping my pain to myself and trying to repress my negative feelings.
During this hard time I learned a MAJOR lesson: Time does NOT heal all things.
I still felt like shit a year later because I never acknowledged the severity of abuse I had endured.
Healing and recovering after a toxic relationship is an ACTIVE process. If you are in pain right now, you need to actually take action to release the hurt and allow yourself to get on with your life.
Once I realized that sitting around hoping that I would magically feel better one day wasn’t getting me anywhere, I put in the work.
I made up my mind to pick myself up, dust off my crown, and remember who the hell I was.
No more pity parties. No more repressed pain. No more angry thoughts and resentment. No more thinking about my ex.
Getting myself back after all these years was the best thing I could ever do.
I found my spark and love for life again. I rediscovered my passions and what makes me happy. I learned how to be happy alone and thrive living the #singlelife.
Most importantly, I learned how to love myself again after putting myself through hell.
Now, it’s your turn to do the same.